How much do you really trust a friend whether its a male or female. I had an old playmate we were been going out for quite sometimes. Our relationship ended in good terms at one point she would call just to go out to have some drinks, I that was fine with me. She also had called one day and to ask for a favor, Hummmm? I question in my mind and already new what she was going to ask. The favor she need was $100.00 and would pay me back at the end of the week. I smile and started to laugh quietly. I sort of knew if I lend her the $$$$ I probably would not get a back. When that day came up pay me back it was on her payday, she called to return the money that she had borrow. Wow I was really greatful because I have been screwed before lending out cash but that was too my family. The next time she called again about four months later to ask for more money this time it was double that she had borrow from the last time. I really didnt want to lend her the money even though we still were talking but I was not dating her for a long time. The begging started out because she needed food for her kids until payday. Wow!, I already knew her kids and they are really great with their mommy so I said why not. So days became weeks, weeks became months two months down the line, I decided to call her to see how she was doing. Ofcourse, also to ask when she was going to pay me back. The conversation was never brought up, I wanted her to bring it up and to pay me back. Now two month went by again, Wow she has not called? I try to call her and no answer, I had IM her no answere even text her. Now this was going to be a bum deal, why would she do that too me, and knowing that I would lend her money. But to avoid me wow that really sux for me.
What else has sux for me, lol. During the time I was going out with another friend. This friend was another drinking partner lol. We known eachother for about four months and once in a blue moon we would go out to have a drink. This friend would be my second person to ask for some $$$$$ but not much at all. Still knowing that I had already had someone I lend out too with an outstanding balance of two hundred dollars. This was not going to be a fund date. She would ask to have this money when we were going to meetup, and I had agree to lend her sixty dollars. "Im so frustrated why I'm even doing this". I had explained to her on a serious note that I had loan someone money and had been screwed over on this. So ofcourse she was upset because I was talking too her like it was her fault. The fact is I dont mind giving the money but for the person not to recognize whose giving the money to them. Also decide to vanish bail out on a loan that was not given or make excuses like befriend me because now another problem came across. "Sorry, I can no longer talk to you . I have been trying to work out with my ex husban. I do not see any point for us to talk anymore". What a crock a shit is this. FUCKING FEMALES!, and probably that would not be the case. It could have been a close friend that could have done this too me.
Sorry, for anyone else that would like to borrow from me, the bank is close. Its close for any future mistake I had made in my past. The lesson learned is im going to send bounty hunters to carry out a mission to gather my funds. But if the FRIEND is a friend that is going to borrow any money. Remember this, if you cant pay it back to ever use borrow. Borrow is something your going to return, knowing the trust from your friend. Since the FUCKING banks wont lend you the money or your family. I do borrow money lots of it and I do return it back and a gift of gratitude. I know the people I do borrow will always come through and I will not walk off on them.
LH
best wishes
borrowers.
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